Whether you just started dating or celebrating your fifth anniversary, surprising your partner now and then is a great way to convey your love. And because gestures that would’ve been considered as surprises initially soon become a routine, it’s vital that you think of new and creative ways to keep the fire burning.
Luckily, there are numerous romantic ideas you can surprise your partner with. They don’t have to be grand and expensive either. According to Sandra Larson, a nurse and relationship expert from mysextoyguide.com, “as long as the surprise is from the heart and a genuine attempt to strengthen the bond between the two of you, nothing else matters,” she says.
So, with that in mind, let’s take a closer look at 7 romantic ideas that will surprise your partner;
I. Help Fulfil a Pressing Bucket List Dream
Is there something your partner has been saving up for? Maybe a weekend mountain climbing expedition? Or even swimming with the dolphins? Whatever pressing bucket list dream they might have; you’d be surprised at how much it’d mean if you helped fulfill it. Secretly plan ahead and avail yourself to surprise your partner with the one thing they’ve always wanted to do. “It doesn’t have to be a trip around the world,” says Sandra.” The fact that you listened and made the necessary arrangements is enough.”
II. Book for a Romantic Trip for Two.
Depending on your budget, you can sweep your partner off their feet with a romantic getaway. It doesn’t have to be a Switzerland countryside trip either; there are numerous places you can go and have a fun time away from home. Sandra recommends picking a destination with significance to your relationship. It might be your partner’s dream vacation destination or a place that both of you might have drooled over before.
“Just don’t complicate things. Make it simple and only communicate about the trip when everything’s sorted out.”
III. Leave Spontaneous Love Notes
Writing a small note to either appreciate your partner or motivate them when they’re going through a hard time is a great romantic gesture. Yes, it might not dramatically change their situation, but it’ll surely put a smile on their face. Write about why you love them and their most valuable features or attributes. Now here comes the good part. Make it sexual with subtle hints about what you’d like to do with them later that night. Trust me! The note will get his/her adrenaline pumping.
IV. Plan for a Spa Day
Everyone needs a break every once in a while. So, why not get two spa vouchers and surprise your spouse with a day to unwind and recharge together. Sandra recommends giving your partner the voucher ahead of time to plan for the day and avoid conflicting commitments. However, if you’re sure that your partner doesn’t have plans on a specific day, pick him/her from work and head down to the spa. Just pretend you’re taking a detour and see their reaction when you pull up at the front desk. You can even pass by their favorite restaurant later for some late lunch or dinner.
V. Go for an Unplanned Evening Walk
Do you live by the beach or near a park? Perfect! Take your partner with you for a walk and watch the sunset together. You can even take a walk down the street, preferably a quiet one. It might not be the grandest gesture out there, but the time you spend together will be good for the relationship. If you have a dog, let it tag along and enjoy the sunset as well. This could be the best time to take a trip down memory lane, especially if something special like your first kiss happened during such a walk.
VI. How About a Backyard Picnic?
Backyard picnics are a classic romantic gesture that’s not going out of fashion any time soon. Depending on how far you want to go with it, you can either make your partner’s favorite meal, get some lighting going on, and a bottle of wine. However, if you want to go all out, you can bring in a portable firepit, a projector, and a comfortable set up for a complete outdoor movie night experience. It will surely take a lot of planning and maybe an extra hand, but it’s worth it!
VII. Help with their To-do List
Has your partner been complaining about a specific task they just can’t get done? Maybe it’s an item they want from the store or even a chore they’re supposed to have done a few days/weeks ago. Make plans to have it done before they get back to the house. Whether it’s remodeling the house or getting something from Target, taking something off your partner’s to-do list creates more time to spend together and enjoy each other’s company.
And that’s it! Being romantic can be as easy or complicated as you want it to be. There are numerous ideas, huge and small, that will undoubtedly surprise your partner. So, take some time and think of one or two things that will sweep your significant other off their feet. Remember. It’s the thought and intention that matter!
